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If you feel like everything you say to your toddler goes in one ear and out the other, don鈥檛 despair.

Toddlers aren鈥檛 ignoring advice. They are storing it for later, according to a new 蜜糖直播 study. This goes against the notion that has long been accepted by scientists and many parents 鈥� that children鈥檚 brains function as if they were little adults.

Led by psychology professor Yuko Munakata, the researchers found toddlers neither plan for the future nor live completely in the present. Instead, they call up the past as they need it. Any parent who has tried, to no avail, to convince a 3-year-old to put on a jacket when it is snowing has faced this issue. Munakata鈥檚 research indicates that toddlers don鈥檛 think, 鈥淚t鈥檚 cold outside. I better wear my jacket.鈥� Instead, they go outside, feel cold and retrieve in their memory where their jacket is and go get it.

The researchers don鈥檛 claim to be parental experts, but their findings could aid parents in relationships with their toddlers. Their advice? Avoid repeating commands that require your toddler to anticipate the future.

鈥淒on鈥檛 do something that requires them to plan ahead in their mind, but rather try to highlight the conflict that they are going to face,鈥� Munakata says. 鈥淧erhaps you could say something like, 鈥業 know you don鈥檛 want to take your coat now, but when you鈥檙e standing in the yard shivering later, remember that you can get your coat from your bedroom.鈥� 鈥�